I *heart* Bombay (and well..Boston)

I'm urban..in the way other people are mountain-people or tunafish junkies. I love city life...something about dreary concrete blocks and grumpy people totally gets my juices flowing. Ergo, this will be a blog about me, my two favourite cities (Bombay and Boston), my addiction to Vietnamese coffee and my views on Gregorian chant and it's efficacy in curing some types of tympannic membrane rupture. Enjoy!

Sunday, July 08, 2007

I've had rather a fun weekend in Bangalore. "Why is this weekend anymore fun than the weekends past?" I hear the littlest member at the Vikster seder table say..Well, for starters I had not one but two coffee dates! And given the fact that Bangalore seems to abound in fantastic coffee places, I was sure I was in for a weekend of fun times..

Weekend began with me rushing to head outta the door at work so I could make it through the insane Bangalore traffic to my first port of call...Koshy's for some fab dark coffee and a very overdone steak. And of course Date #1, We'll call him "the Dashing Dentist". Quite fit in a "I poured myself into this Tshirt to impress you" kinda way. Also, had fab teeth and an interesting nose. Since I possess neither, I've been on a quest to improve myself by flaunting arm candy that has the stuff I lack. (Sadly, so far it hasn't gotten to the giant "I can't believe it's really real" dong that I lack - and rumor has some Bangaloreans possess).

Anyway, DD spotted me at a party, tracked me down and asked me out. Why sure! I said..relieved that I had some weekend plans finally! "How about a coffee?" I asked - secretly hoping he was an Eddie Izzard fan and knew that coffee in most cases meant "coffee" (nudge-nudge-wink-wink). Friday evening came and turned into a Friday "it's windy and cold and Iwish I had someone to hug" night. Hmm. No dentist around - dashing or otherwise; just the same motley group of artists, NGO'ers, journos, professional lesbians and assorted longhaired, unshowered denizens that make up Koshy's on a weekend night. The Vikster was stood up. For the fifth time in this city. I thought about the brave denizens of Bombay - who will brave crowded trains, over-flowing gutters, downed trees and bus strikes but will still keep their date (well, to be fair - this is only the case if a fuck is guarenteed...). Here, 5 people have felt it is ok to just not show up with no notice or concern for me - waiting and chewing on a rubbery steak (and growing steadily more indignant).

Anyway, after pouring my heart out to male fag-hags (Still auditioning for the female one sadly!), I sat back and waited for Saturday lunch and coffee with "The MBA from Delhi" who seemed interesting enough when I met him at Hint (PS - my new favourite hang out, at Bangalore Central mall). We had lunch, talked about our respective cities and how they compared to this one, national issues, the price of gas and the lack of rain. (Just another typical date with me). Over coffee he talked about all the guys who were chasing him - Bangalore, like Bombay, has some sort of fair-guy-from-Delhi fetish that I just don't understand. I nodded along and lied about how Bangalore guys were chasing me as well (a bad-hair-day victim who has his nose buried in Yiddish literature most days).

Anyway, at the end of the date, I told him I had a fun time and would love to do this again. Which was true. Probably not in a romantic sense but more as a pre-cursor to sex. (Like the Being-gay-in-India handbooks all say - meet them for coffee first and then go over and bonk their heads off) Anyway, he had me splitting my sides when he told me that wouldn't be possible as he only meets guys with intelligence. Of which he implied I had a passing aquaintance of only - sorta like an aunt who pops in once a year at Diwali to talk about her children and who you never hear from any other time.

Ah well, I said, too bad. Biting my tongue and trying hard not to list all the "intelligent" guys he had been shagging over the past month (The Bangalore gay world is about as big as a large-ish room in a Bombay flat - and news and reputations travel fast), I walked outta the Max Cafe laughing and messaging all my friends who had been trying to tell me how intelligent I was and how I will meet the right rocket scientist or doctor someday. Clearly I am missing some aspect of intelligence here - when did he lose me? When I said I was looking forward to seeing the Himesh Reshamiyya movie? Or when I said I love Punjabi culture because they introduced us to the world of paneer? I think I saw him blanche when I said the woman at the next table reminded me of Rakhi Sawant (seriously folks, her boobs were in her plate everytime she leaned in to take a bite!)

Anyway, I guess I have one more excuse to add to my list (I blogged about it earlier here..)

Ironic when you see the last excuse I listed in that post. It would seem I'm dumbing down as I slide into my thirties...Me at 37? A Brown Homer Simpson?


  • At 6:11 AM, Anonymous Amt @ Sydney said…

    Not a good feeling at all to be stood up but what the hell you are still having a good time in Bangalore. Its fun reading your anecdotes. Keep 'em coming.

  • At 1:03 PM, Anonymous Sharath said…

    You get stood up and when I try to call you up from NY like a zillion times and tell you how much I miss you in all the fun I am having at NYC, I only get to listen to sarcastic stuff like "Finally, you remembered me!! " and "Auto, M G Road?? Catch you later, bye!! ". I don't know from where you are incurred this Britishers-snobbish-attitude off late!!

  • At 11:24 PM, Blogger Ipshi said…

    Finally!! have been checking your blof for so long now.. be more regular pretty please!

    all said and done... looks like ur having fun there!

    take care and god bless

  • At 8:03 PM, Blogger ronn said…

    You needn't worry about a punk that stands you up. Or one that questions your intelligence. Their lost. I'm sure you'll catch a hottie soon. If that's what you want.

  • At 9:49 PM, Blogger pepe M. said…

    i cant help but laugh...
    yu must be quite (over/too) intimidating eh? hahahaha....
    am sure yull find yur match...bangalore has loads of it...

    keep hunting :)

  • At 3:47 PM, Anonymous Balaji said…

    the woman at the next table reminded me of Rakhi Sawant (seriously folks, her boobs were in her plate everytime she leaned in to take a bite!)

    LIAR !!! I demand photographic evidence ! Hmmpffttt!

  • At 10:25 AM, Blogger still ink stained said…

    who says people are straight with you even when you are straight? been single in bombay six months, guys i like never call back, the guy I dont never stop calling!! kill murphy I say.

    PS: i love rakhi sawant.

  • At 5:11 PM, Blogger Tux said…

    hey pass that delhi guy to me...i m visiting home after 3 yrs...wanna meet someone in delhi but dont know anybody...

  • At 6:54 AM, Anonymous IGC said…

    Not intelligent? Hmmphh. Ask him how his yiddish is? Ask him how many books he's read? Ask him how many harvard Profs he's enchanted (and bonked)?
    I say, good riddance to bad rubbish!

  • At 12:08 AM, Blogger The Line of Beauty said…

    That's quite an incredible story..I can't stop laughing, imagining someone having the gumption, telling you are not intelligent enough for me..
    Plz be more frequent in blogging

  • At 8:49 AM, Blogger Irshad said…

    What's a professional lesbian?

  • At 1:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Vikster...

    Its amazing how your blog transcends any context - age, sex, sexuality, location, nationality - to make a connection...Screw the (ill)-perceived lack of intelligence, or the lousy dates that manage not to show up....I'm sure u know that Bombay lost you to blr - someone there ought to jump at the immense opportunity you present :), and lets not forget the entertainment that comes on the side!! lol...


  • At 3:56 AM, Blogger Vikster said…

    amt@sydney: More anecdotes about being stood up? No thanks! I plan on writing about my happy life with my lover soon. IF I manage to get one this side of the 21st. century.

    Sharath: I am quite the Anglophile. Especially when I'm standing at the corner of Cubbon and Lady Curzon.

    Ipshi: How is being stood up all the time implying I'm having fun in Blore?

    Ronn: Hottie is what I want. Have long ago decided that since I won't get someone who like Yiddish literature and Arabic music, I might as well go for the shallower side of things. Me want hottie.

    Pepe M.: Si, I'm quite intimidating. Especially when I stand with my drink looking lost and lonely and putting on "puppy-dog-take-me-home-tonight" face.

    Balaji: Boobs so big they wouldn't fit into a wide angle lens...sorry no photo evidence.

    Still ink stained: I totally agree. It's not like I don't get hit on. It's just by people who I see myself hitting. Not on. Just hitting.

    Tux: Delhi Belly lives in Bangalore now. I thought that was clear?

    IGC: Why won't you come back and take me away? You already swept me off my feet once (to the strains of Ella if I remember correctly).

    The line of beauty: I wll try my best to be more regular. It's just that Blore has slowed me down so much I just have nothing going on to talk about.

    Irshad: Ekta Kapoor.

    Rishi: Bombay lost me? Hey Ram, they had their 29 years to get me!


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